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Two Years In: Love, Lessons, and Letting Go of Expectations
We said we wanted God at the center—but too often, we acted like we knew better. Two years into marriage, I’ve learned that healing is messy, love is quieter than I expected, and showing up doesn’t always look pretty. This isn’t the anniversary I imagined—but maybe it’s the one that means the most. Real, raw, and still reaching for grace.
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Teaching My Kids Consent, Boundaries, and the Power of “No”
In our home, consent isn’t just a conversation—it’s a core value. I don’t force my kids to give hugs, perform on command, or greet strangers just because they’re family. I believe in raising children who know their voices matter and that “no” is a full sentence. This post shares the boundaries we’ve set to protect their confidence, safety, and self-worth—even when it goes against cultural norms.
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Slow Mornings and the Beauty of Routines Over Schedules
There’s something deeply peaceful about a slow morning—the kind where breakfast isn’t rushed, the dogs eat at 9 instead of 7, and the kids ease into the day. We’ve traded schedules for rhythms, and honestly, it’s brought so much calm. This post dives into the difference between routines and schedules, why strict timelines overwhelm me, and how hands-on learning shapes our homeschool life. If you’ve ever felt like traditional systems don’t fit your family, this one’s for you. 🌿
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When God Redirects Your Dreams
I’ve always loved to sing and dreamed of joining the worship team — but after a quiet moment at church, I felt God gently redirecting me. What if the calling isn’t about the stage, but about healing and using my voice in a new way? This post is for anyone who’s ever wrestled with fear, rejection, and the quiet redirection of God’s purpose.
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Why We Choose to Homeschool (And Why We Still Do)
Our decision to homeschool wasn’t just about academics — it was about healing, freedom, and creating a safe space where our kids could grow in faith and identity. In this post, I share the heart behind our homeschool journey, how it connects to my own story, and why we chose a path that honors both learning and love.
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When Healing and Motherhood Collide
Motherhood has a way of uncovering the wounds we thought we buried. As I raise my children, I often find myself face-to-face with the pain of my own childhood. This post explores what it looks like to heal while mothering — to break generational cycles, lean into grace, and let God transform the broken places into something whole.
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From Surviving to Thriving: Why I Chose Essential Oils
What started as a desperate search for relief became a journey of healing, faith, and empowerment. In this post, I share how essential oils helped me move from just surviving each day to finally thriving — physically, emotionally, and spiritually. If you’re curious about natural living or feel stuck in survival mode, my story might be the hope you’re looking for.
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Welcome to The Essential Schoolhouse
In this first post, I share the heart behind The Essential Schoolhouse - a space for healing, homemaking, and honest motherhood. If you’re rebuilding life with faith, grace, and intention, you belong here.