Before I had four kids, people would say “You’re going to have your hands full!” as if I didn’t already know that. But here’s what nobody actually told me about having four kids - the real, raw, beautiful, and messy truth you don’t see on Instagram. You’re not cooking one meal - you’re running a restaurant. My oldest and baby eat everything. My third born only wants meat. My second born? Vegetables and bread only. Nobody warns you that feeding four kids means navigating four completely different relationships with food. Homeschooling means four different approaches to learning. My oldest wants to do everything and is writing her own book. My…